Kill me. Kill me now.
I had a nice time with my boyfriend last night. I'm not going to get into details in this post, but impostor syndrome regarding my pansexuality and whether I'd desire this boy trotted in my head. He was the first trans man I was intimate with. I'm happy to report that it did not interfere.
However, he developed #dermatitis and had to return home earlier than expected.
He did not have any known #allergies. I have a cat, but he said he wasn't allergic to cats.
I'm grasping at straws here. Wild speculation:
1. Can HRT give allergies to a #trans person?
2. Can #autism eventually give you allergies? (I'll remind you that my own somatic symptoms evolved over time.)
3. Is it psychological? He looked fine, but I know he has high anxiety.
(BTW, we've eliminated the latex in the condoms we used as a possible allergen.)
Yes, he's going to see an allergist, but I want to get a head start, and I'm a bit skeptical at the ability of random doctors about dealing with trans folks, and #autistic folks. He's both.
